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Tuesday, November 01, 2005

thoughts and opinions please!

Ok so I am wanting thoughts and opinions.

I have an ex that i was with for about 1.5 years and I really miss them. Just as friends miss them, we have lost touch and I have undergone a big campaign to track them down. I have a number now, was it bad of me to want to find him since I am happily married to my current husband?

your thoughts please.

-T

posted by The Great Cranky One @ 9:48 AM   3 comments

3 Comments:

At 5:54 AM, Blogger Milla said...

Hi there.

What is your husband saying about this?

If I was the one that missed someone very much, I guess I would try to find him/her. But if I have a husband that don't want me to do that I have to think twice about it. But at the same time you must do what you feel is important to you. But a advice, don't do it in secret.

First of all, you must insure your husband that you missing your ex if simple because of the friendship not by love. Otherwise he maybe get jealous..

It is tricky to answear unless I know what your husband thinks. :)

Take care!

 
At 7:27 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

not necessarily, especially if it's for "closure" and if you miss him as friends, and you and your husband agree it's not harmful to your current relationship status.

 
At 11:59 PM, Blogger Unknown said...

Hey T
Since you are in a new relationship, BEFORE you call, talk to your partner.
Though your intentions could be totally innocent, the appearance or action without prior discussion could cause many problems down the road.

I have always maintained relationships with my exlovers (after an acceptable cooling off period). I know! I know! How anti-hetrosexual of me ... but I digress ....

If you cared about this person, it is okay to maintain a friendship as long as it is wanted in return by your exlover.
I have found that a GOOD ICEBREAKER (for me) is a halmark card - expensive, no 99 centers - that are "just thinking of you" then use 2 37 cent stamps. But this is my way.
You find your own - something that says "you are open to resolve the past (and all issues that arise) and build (or rebuild) your friendship because: the bottom like is that you like the person and still want a friendship.

GOOD LUCK and let us know!

 

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